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Friday, February 11, 2005
CNY day 3
I really don't understand.
Recap: She got upset when I didn't tell her something. I said it's not important. I said for the important things, some of which I made sure she was the first to know.
She replied: "They are not important yet I do not know already.. then why would I know the important ones.."
Very interesting, don't you think?
It's not as if I refuse to tell her, or that I keep secrets from her. It's precisely because they're not important so I didn't tell her. If I remember I WILL tell her about them. But if they're important of course I will tell her asap.
Then she said she's not worth my remembering those things to tell her? I don't understand at all. So I did tell her more. She said I was trying to gek her. That I just have to tell her more, not EVERYTHING? But what if I missed out something? Wouldn't it lead back to this very same issue?
And after all the things I did, she tells me she envies another girl, 'cos of how the guy is treating her? Am I so lousy?
She had school today. I asked if she wanna meet me later. She said she was tired and wants to go home.
She said things which are supposed to be 'confidential' but not important at all, can't I just tell her instead of she being stunned when people thought she knew.
The point is they are not important at all. I don't even have them at the back of my head. If I touch on them yah I'll say, if not they're not mentioned.
Argh I'm repeating myself. I'll just leave with a passage from the #2 issue of GET REAL undergrad magazine they distribute free in school.
Learning to love.
by Larry Lim
To learn to love, I believe, is as important as to love. To know when to give and take is as crucial as giving your whole hearted love. It is easy to go through highs of a relationship, but it is how you face the lows that will eventually define the relationship.
A story that I like to tell my girlfriend: a couple was enjoying a stroll on a beautiful night in a park. Suddenly they heard the sound "quack, quack". "That's a chicken," said the woman. "No, dear, that's a duck." said the guy. "That's a chicken." said the woman. "No dear, chickens go cluck cluck, ducks go quack quack." said the guy. "No, that's a chicken." insisted the woman. The guy thought for a while and then said, "Yes dear you're right. That's a chicken." The woman was then satisfied and both of them happily carried on their stroll.
What's the moral of the story? No, it's not "never fight with a woman", nor is it "never argue with a woman, you can't win!" The moral is that there are many times that a couple starts arguing for something not important at all! It doesn't matter what or who is making that stupid sound, the important issue here is that the couple was initially spending quality time and something as simple as that could have changed the mood. Imagine if both parties don't give in, a quarrel will ensue, most likely other unrelated stuff will be brought up and a 'storm' will begin. It just isn't worth it to spoil a perfect evening and a wonderful relationship over a riduculous "Quack, Quack!"
~
Only this time, she doesn't see this as a not important issue.
~~~
Edited: after midnight 1237am. The MMS which I mentioned she sent on thursday finally found its way into my singtel mms inbox webpage. Any ideas why it wasn't sent directly to my phone?
I told her I love it and she said welcome.
triggering Mr Ng HS |
I really don't understand.
Recap: She got upset when I didn't tell her something. I said it's not important. I said for the important things, some of which I made sure she was the first to know.
She replied: "They are not important yet I do not know already.. then why would I know the important ones.."
Very interesting, don't you think?
It's not as if I refuse to tell her, or that I keep secrets from her. It's precisely because they're not important so I didn't tell her. If I remember I WILL tell her about them. But if they're important of course I will tell her asap.
Then she said she's not worth my remembering those things to tell her? I don't understand at all. So I did tell her more. She said I was trying to gek her. That I just have to tell her more, not EVERYTHING? But what if I missed out something? Wouldn't it lead back to this very same issue?
And after all the things I did, she tells me she envies another girl, 'cos of how the guy is treating her? Am I so lousy?
She had school today. I asked if she wanna meet me later. She said she was tired and wants to go home.
She said things which are supposed to be 'confidential' but not important at all, can't I just tell her instead of she being stunned when people thought she knew.
The point is they are not important at all. I don't even have them at the back of my head. If I touch on them yah I'll say, if not they're not mentioned.
Argh I'm repeating myself. I'll just leave with a passage from the #2 issue of GET REAL undergrad magazine they distribute free in school.
Learning to love.
by Larry Lim
To learn to love, I believe, is as important as to love. To know when to give and take is as crucial as giving your whole hearted love. It is easy to go through highs of a relationship, but it is how you face the lows that will eventually define the relationship.
A story that I like to tell my girlfriend: a couple was enjoying a stroll on a beautiful night in a park. Suddenly they heard the sound "quack, quack". "That's a chicken," said the woman. "No, dear, that's a duck." said the guy. "That's a chicken." said the woman. "No dear, chickens go cluck cluck, ducks go quack quack." said the guy. "No, that's a chicken." insisted the woman. The guy thought for a while and then said, "Yes dear you're right. That's a chicken." The woman was then satisfied and both of them happily carried on their stroll.
What's the moral of the story? No, it's not "never fight with a woman", nor is it "never argue with a woman, you can't win!" The moral is that there are many times that a couple starts arguing for something not important at all! It doesn't matter what or who is making that stupid sound, the important issue here is that the couple was initially spending quality time and something as simple as that could have changed the mood. Imagine if both parties don't give in, a quarrel will ensue, most likely other unrelated stuff will be brought up and a 'storm' will begin. It just isn't worth it to spoil a perfect evening and a wonderful relationship over a riduculous "Quack, Quack!"
~
Only this time, she doesn't see this as a not important issue.
~~~
Edited: after midnight 1237am. The MMS which I mentioned she sent on thursday finally found its way into my singtel mms inbox webpage. Any ideas why it wasn't sent directly to my phone?
I told her I love it and she said welcome.
triggering Mr Ng HS |